Don’t Do What Everyone Else Does in Bed
Here Is How
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𝑳𝒊𝒏𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒊𝒔 𝒗𝒆𝒓𝒚 𝒎𝒂𝒔𝒄𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒆; 𝒉𝒆𝒓𝒆 𝒊𝒔 𝒘𝒉𝒚:
When clients first come to me, they seem to have an idea that lovemaking is LINEAR.
There’s pretty much one way to do it and that’s the path everyone follows, without really doubting it or considering there’s anything else.
Not that there’s anything wrong with it, and it can certainly bring pleasure and nice experiences. But there is also a NON-LINEAR way of doing things!
You are probably familiar with this age-old formula, it goes something like this:
You stop talking and start kissing
Fool around a bit
Move on to penetration & peak experience cuddle and conclude.
This structure is a super old, masculine paradigm.
I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with it.
I’m am telling you – there is MORE to just one way of doing anything, and enjoying yourself and your lover and the playful erotic environment you create together!
Getting stuck on old patterns is what kills the spark in bed and creates disinterest and lack of connection.
Linear lovemaking is very masculine and is missing the fluidity and flow of the feminine.
My invitation to you is, to be HONEST: has your lovemaking been kind of the same thing?
Even if you switch it up a little bit here and there, are you following some kind of pattern? What is it?
And how can YOU try something really new and NON-LINEAR?
P.S Find it difficult to communicate with your lover about these topics, speak up in bed and move away from the same old routine?
My erotic communication course gives you the confidence and practical tools to initiate in the bedroom so that you get to make love on your own terms!
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