How I Stopped Having Sex When I Didn’t Feel Like It

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If there is #1 thing that instantly shifted my experiences in the bedroom, it’s learning how to speak up for what I want, express what doesn’t work for me, and be honest about my desires and needs.

This isn’t something that always came easy to me, quite the opposite in fact

I would shy away from expressing my needs, keep quiet when things didn’t feel so good, and I froze too many times, allowing things to happen that I actually didn’t want to.

It’s not that I have faced abuse, but I did do it when I didn’t feel like it, allowed myself to be entered way before I was ready, and kept myself in pain or discomfort to please him or not kill the mood.

Don’t get me wrong; I have always loved to make love, but I didn’t feel empowered in bed, and I would have loved to have these tools earlier in my life so that I could express myself authentically.

All of that changed when I discovered how to communicate my desires and needs from my feminine softness. It changed everything for me, and the effect it had on men amazed me!

My newly learned communication skills didn’t make him feel like he did anything wrong, it didn’t feel awkward to express myself, and it definitely did not kill the mood.

I learned to express myself in a way it felt connecting, real and pretty juicy at times

I am telling you, learning this art has been MAGIC to me.

It shifted the way I make love to the next level, and I am sure it will do for you too.

How do I know?

Because I have trained hundreds (perhaps thousands by now) women from all around the world who now feel empowered, confident and able to express themselves fully!

And now it’s your turn!

I just opened the doors to my upcoming training that is ALL about this!


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